I think I understand...

For some dorky reason I am kinda interested in the 5 love languages. I believe they are legitimate, and I bet they would help us understand each other a lot easier if we could understand them. I think they are wonderful and I appreciate all of them. I was thinking a lot because I wanted to know what mine was. We all have the love language that we speak to others but, there is also a certain one that speaks best to us. It can be the same one you speak to others that you also would want spoken to you, naturally it’s the one that you desire most, and sometimes they are different. So I was thinking of mine, and there is nothing more that I would rather do then show someone I care by serving them. And I decided that is also my love language I need spoken to me. Maybe I should list all 5 so that this makes more sense…

1. Words of affirmation
2. Gifts
3. Acts of service
4. Quality time
5. Physical touch

Ok, so I went through each one and I found the one that I understand and feel I need most, # 3, acts of service. Not only is it the way I show others I love and care about them but, it also speaks to me when someone goes beyond words and shows me their love by actions. In my case, maybe not for all, actions speak much louder than words. It doesn’t mean I don’t believe people when they tell me they care; it’s just the way to tell me the best. I think we all need a little of each but it’s sorta neat to see which ones are most important to you individually. I just wanted to write that out.

I’m kinda sleepy, and yay! Tomorrow is Saturday so I get to pretty much relax and I think I will try and finish some books I am reading. That is a blessing, to not have anything planned… I pray I make the best of it. Time to wash my face and go to bed <><
God bless and Goodnight!
Kesh~